"3 No's: we did not cause it, we can not cure it and we can not control it"

In your first  Al-Anon meeting you will hear "three 3 No's: we did not cause it, we can not cure it and we can not control it" and usually it is appliable for alcoholic family member who have come to the group to get help for their alcoholic love ones.
But i have recently discovered that those three nos are appliable also in other situations.

Actually already 2014 when i was googleing info about Christ Embassy church and its founders and begin to see their messy marriage which got now divorced, my Higher Power reminded to me this same principle of Al-Anon Step One about those three nos.That I did not cause it, I can not cure it and I can not control it and it was so relieving!

Sometimes we christians think that we can make something about it when we read negative news about our religious movement founders...but ultimately it is God who decides the thing and we do not have to pick up the thing as our own.....

So please do not feel guilty if you feel right now failed bc God did not heard your prayers. You did not caused it at all and you can not control it anyway... 

Calm down. It is not end of the world!